New Brunswick Strangulation Charges Attorney
Reviewed by William A. Proetta, Esq. · Updated October 2026
Strangling or smothering a spouse, dating partner, household member or co-parent is charged as aggravated assault in the second degree under N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1(b)(13). The range is five to ten years, with a fine as high as $150,000. Because it is a No Early Release Act offense, a prison sentence must be served at 85 percent before parole, followed by 3 years of parole supervision.
In Middlesex County the charge is screened by the Prosecutor’s Office at 25 Kirkpatrick Street, presented to a New Brunswick grand jury, and tried in the Superior Court at 56 Paterson Street. Within the same week, the Family Part usually opens a restraining order file on the same facts. We represent people accused of strangulation in Edison, Woodbridge, New Brunswick, Piscataway and the rest of the county from our Edison office. In more than 15 years of trial work I have found that the first weeks, when the medical record and restraining order testimony take shape, often decide these cases.
The Four Things the State Must Prove
New Jersey’s model jury instruction, adopted in November 2023, splits the offense into four parts.
- Obstruction of breathing or blood flow. The State must show the accused applied pressure to the throat or neck, or covered the nose or mouth, and thereby obstructed breathing or circulation. Smothering with a hand or a pillow is included.
- A culpable mental state. The accused acted knowingly, or recklessly with “extreme indifference to the value of human life.” The reckless version is demanding: harm must have been probable, and a mere chance of harm is not enough.
- A domestic relationship. The complaining witness has to fit N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(d). That covers current and past spouses, anyone who lives or once lived in the same household, anyone the accused has dated, and the other parent of a child the two share or are expecting.
- Bodily injury, or an attempt. Under N.J.S.A. 2C:11-1, pain alone is bodily injury. Trying to cause it is enough, so a conviction does not require marks, bruising or a hospital visit.
The Attorney General’s 2023 strangulation directive notes that many people who report it have no visible injury.
Without a domestic relationship, (b)(13) does not apply
New Jersey has no general strangulation offense. Paragraph (b)(13) is written only for people who meet the domestic violence definition. If the two people were strangers, co-workers, or acquaintances at a bar on Route 1, the prosecutor has to use another part of the assault statute, depending on the injury proved or attempted:
Without a domestic relationship, (b)(13) does not apply
N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1(b)(13), (b)(1), (b)(7) and (a)(1). Bars span the ordinary prison range on a 0 to 10 year scale.
Paragraph (b)(13) applies only when the complaining witness fits N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(d): a current or past spouse, a present or former household member, someone the accused has dated, or the other parent of a child the two share or are expecting.
Whether a short or casual relationship fits the statute is often the first legal question. Our Middlesex aggravated assault page covers the other subsections.
When the incident happened matters. The offense was created in 2017 as a third-degree crime. P.L.2021, c.172 raised it to second degree effective July 12, 2021. An incident before that date was graded third degree under the law then in force, with no NERA. Our article on New Jersey’s strangulation law traces that history.
Sentencing and What Follows a Conviction
Presumption of prison. N.J.S.A. 2C:44-1(d)(1) presumes a state prison term on any second-degree conviction. Two aggravating factors are aimed at domestic cases: factor (14), when a child younger than 16 witnessed it, and factor (15), when there is a history of domestic violence on more than one occasion.
Two routes below the normal range. First, under the downgrade provision restored in July 2026 at N.J.S.A. 2C:44-1(d)(2), the judge may impose a third-degree term if clearly convinced the mitigating side substantially outweighs the aggravating side and the interest of justice requires it. The State has 10 days to appeal, and a downgraded sentence should not be assumed to escape the 85 percent rule. Second, mitigating factor (15), added in 2026, applies when the defendant’s own experience of domestic violence or other substantial abuse contributed to the offense. When the court finds it, the presumption of imprisonment does not apply, and the reduced range for a second-degree crime is 3 to 5 years under 2C:44-1(i). Strangulation is neither murder nor a registrable offense, so that factor is available. See our No Early Release Act page for how parole is calculated.
Firearms. Officers at a domestic scene take weapons that could expose the complaining witness to serious harm, together with the gun owner’s ID card or purchase permit. Once convicted of aggravated assault, a person who later has a gun faces a separate second-degree charge under the certain-persons law, N.J.S.A. 2C:39-7(b)(1), which carries five years without parole. A final restraining order adds federal restrictions.
Registration. Megan’s Law plays no part in a (b)(13) case.
Expungement. Strangulation is absent from the list of offenses that can never be cleared. The waiting period generally runs from the latest of the conviction, payment of fines, or completion of probation, parole or incarceration, so a NERA sentence pushes it well out.
Immigration. A (b)(13) conviction can expose a non-citizen to deportation as a domestic violence offense regardless of sentence length, and possibly as an aggravated felony if the sentence is a year or more. Because the statute can be violated recklessly, whether it counts as a crime of violence is unsettled, and the wording of any plea matters. Our page on immigration consequences explains why counsel should review a plea first.
The Middlesex Process: Two Cases at Once
Arrest. Under N.J.S.A. 2C:25-21, arrest is mandatory once there is probable cause and the complaining witness has any sign of injury, including reported pain. Officers also complete a domestic violence risk assessment, and a high score pushes toward a complaint-warrant and a detention motion. The accused is taken to the Middlesex County Adult Correction Center in North Brunswick.
Detention. As a NERA-listed crime involving domestic violence, strangulation qualifies for a prosecutor’s detention motion under N.J.S.A. 2A:162-19(a). No statutory presumption of detention applies; that is reserved for murder and life-term crimes. The hearing comes within days. See bail and detention in Middlesex domestic cases. Release almost always comes with no contact and an order to stay out of the home.
The forensic exam. Since January 1, 2024, every county, Middlesex included, has been required to run a BREATHE team for nonfatal strangulation: a forensic nurse examiner, a law enforcement officer and an advocate. If the person reports strangulation within 5 days, or still has symptoms, and consents, a nurse is to be deployed within an hour. That report will be central evidence, whether it documents findings or does not.
The Family Part. A judge can enter a temporary order that night; the final hearing is held at 120 New Street in New Brunswick. A published 2026 Appellate Division decision treats strangulation as highly relevant to whether a final order is needed and says it can, by itself, make that need self-evident. The hearing is under oath and recorded, and it comes long before the criminal trial, so we prepare it with the criminal case in mind.
Indictment or downgrade. The MCPO decides whether to present (b)(13) to the grand jury or offer a lesser charge. If the case is remanded to a municipal court such as Edison’s or Woodbridge’s as domestic violence simple assault, it becomes a disorderly persons case, but conditional dismissal is still barred for domestic violence offenses.
Two cases at once: the criminal charge and the restraining order
Superior Court, 56 Paterson Street, and the Family Courthouse, 120 New Street, New Brunswick
Criminal case
Family Part case
Withdrawing the Family Part complaint leaves the criminal charge in place; the decision to prosecute belongs to the prosecutor.
Diversion Is Difficult Here
Three rules stack up against Pretrial Intervention. Violent domestic charges are presumed unsuitable. The prosecutor must agree before an application is even reviewed, because prison is presumed and NERA sets a mandatory minimum. And a second-degree applicant must plead guilty to get in. A non-custodial result usually requires a reduction first.
Defenses to a Strangulation Charge
- The relationship element fails. Two or three meetings, or a friendship with no romantic side, may not be a “dating relationship.” If it is not, the charge must change.
- No obstruction. Hands on the shoulders or collar during a struggle, or pushing someone away, is contact, not obstruction of breathing or blood flow.
- Mental state. If the State relies on an attempt, it must prove purpose; if on recklessness, it must prove that harm was probable.
- Self-defense. If the accused was defending against an attack, force can be justified under N.J.S.A. 2C:3-4, and the State must disprove it. See our self-defense page.
- The medical record. The nurse examiner’s findings, the emergency room chart and the 911 call can contradict each other or the later account.
- A lesser verdict. N.J.S.A. 2C:1-8 lets jurors consider simple assault when a rational view of the proof supports it.
- Older incidents. Conduct from before July 12, 2021 carries the old third-degree grade and no NERA term.
Served with a TRO and a strangulation complaint: what to do first
Edison, Woodbridge, New Brunswick, Piscataway or anywhere in Middlesex County · N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1(b)(13)- No contact with the complaining witness, even to apologize, and stay out of the home if the order says so.
- Do not discuss the incident with police until you have advice. Be polite, and say:“I won’t answer questions without my lawyer.”
- Keep your messages and write down the names of anyone who saw or heard what happened.
- If you were defending yourself, tell your lawyer about any injuries to you; force used in self-defense can be justified under N.J.S.A. 2C:3-4.
- Call counsel before the Family Part hearing at 120 New Street. The testimony is under oath and recorded, and it comes long before the criminal trial.
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Strangulation Charges FAQs
Is choking someone a felony in New Jersey?
The state grades crimes by degree instead. Choking or smothering a domestic partner or household member is a second-degree crime, the same grade as a robbery, with a 5 to 10 year range.
Do there have to be marks for a strangulation charge?
No. The statute reaches attempts, and pain by itself is an injury.
What if the person was not my partner or family member?
Then (b)(13) does not apply, and the State must charge a different assault subsection based on the injury, which can be a lesser grade.
Where is a Middlesex strangulation case heard?
The criminal case goes to the Superior Court at 56 Paterson Street in New Brunswick, and the restraining order case to the Family Courthouse at 120 New Street.
Will I be held in jail after a strangulation arrest in Edison or Woodbridge?
Possibly. The charge qualifies for a detention motion, which is decided at a hearing within days of arrival at the jail in North Brunswick.
Can a strangulation charge be dropped if my partner does not want to go forward?
The decision belongs to the prosecutor. Withdrawing the Family Part complaint leaves the criminal charge in place.
Speak With a Middlesex County Strangulation Defense Lawyer
Do not contact the complaining witness, even to apologize, and do not discuss the incident with police until you have advice. Call our Edison office day or night at (732) 659-9600, or contact us online. Other charges in this group appear on our Middlesex assault and threats page.